I am not sure who once said that laughter is the sun that drives the winter from the human face, that happiness often sneaks through a door you didn't know you left open, and that opportunities are often things you haven't noticed the first time around - well, I think this first year is captured and capsuled in all of the above. I was asked yesterday "how did I know Feyi was the one?" and without thinking about it, I answered that i don't know. Its simply because I don't know and I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Matter of fact, I think its a pretty darn good thing. When you fall in love, its not like opening a door and stepping in - its not like when you fall of a bike and bruise yourself, its not something that happens like an earthqauke or an explosion. I believe its one of those things that its smaller and simpler than an explosion - its something most people don't really see or noticed. However, you notice it and it feels like a world of difference and you hope it is, believe it is because this is the person you want to spend the rest of you life with. At that point, you've found your last perfect piece of your puzzle which in turn balances you.
Overall, I am grateful for all.
Our wedding cake a year later..
